Benjamin P. Hardy, a doctoral candidate in psychology, recently wrote a post on the on-line journal Thrive Global about achieving anything you want if you pay the price. Hardy’s premise is an old one. If you are willing to pay the price, sharpen your focus, stop wasting your time and say no to a lot of things you can pursue your dream and achieve what you wish to achieve.
Hardy is right. If you are willing to pay the price there is little you cannot achieve. But the more you want to achieve the higher the price. The price is what you must give up to attain what you want. Hardy glances over this aspect of the formula. Can you devote the time you want to devote to family and friends, to your favorite hobbies, and to other activities that are important to you, and still maintain that level of devotion required to attain your goal? That is the difficult question that anyone who has pursued a challenging goal has had to struggle with. It can be a very difficult struggle.
How badly do you want to achieve your goal? That is the question. You must say no to a great many things to achieve something great. Are you willing to do that? I have long found this question fascinating. I’ve seen many people pay the price and achieve the goal. Some of them believe it was well worth it, some regret the price they paid.
Hardy’s list of things you can achieve and the prices you must pay to achieve it are informative and inspiring. In the end though the answer to the question are you willing to pay the price can only be answered by you. It is an intriguing question for us all. How badly do you want what you think you want to achieve? How high a price are you willing to pay?
In the end you will only know if it was worth it if you try it. You must have the drive to achieve what you want and then the discipline to pay that price. Once you have paid that price and achieved that goal, only then can you know if it was worth it for you.
So how badly do you want to achieve your audacious goal? How high a price are you willing to pay to achieve it?
You can read Hardy’s post here and then think about what you want to achieve and what price you are willing to pay.
What do you think?Wishing you well,
Daniel R. Murphy
Educating people for building wealth, adapting to a changing future and personal development.